do me a favor and stop caring so much.

Being truly in love with someone takes courage, patience, and trust if you ask me. When you've had your heart broken once and you found love yet again you take chances. A person giving their heart away again most likely at first has their guard up. When the guard is broken you care about this person alot, sometimes you might even think a little too much, although it could never be too much. The little things become big things, because most of the time when the feeling is mutual between two people there is no "real" problems. Things like not texting me back right away, who does what the most, who you talk to, blah blah blah, start to become big issues when at first you cared nothing about. Only because you care for this person so much and your scared of getting your heart broken because the first time or maybe even times was hard, but you know this time around would be even harder, especially if your at that age where you know you could be with this person forever. You think to yourself if anything were to happen between me and this person .. thats it for the opposite sex and in some cases the same sex, youll play them out like all the others ones did you if anything were to happen between you and your love. You become very sensitive to your loved one, getting your feelings hurt easily. Your so attached to that person you want everything to be perfect.. but you loose sight that its not. You want that person to your self all the time, but you forget you have to let them breathe as you would want to breathe if your loved one was always with you. These feelings are scary. Sometimes caring way too much for a person can lead to arguing ... alot.. you dont want things to be this way but you cant control the feelings you feel. Arguing puts bumps in your relationship, when these bumps start to become often down the road you want to get rid of them, arguing hurts your feelings and changes alot on your relationship. You start to say I DONT CARE, when said to many times one starts to believe them and when this happens this becomes a problem. Your feelings change, you start to think negative thoughts that maybe you shouldnt be thinking. Your guard builds back up because you caring so much is starting to get you hurt, your so caught up in thinking about that feeling of getting your heart broken again the natural pushing the person away occurs again, being caught up in this feeling is actually breaking your heart. Instead of thinking about what could happen, you should just let them love you and take chances, but being human and knowing the feeling of taking a chance once before and the past taking advantage of you , it seems impossible to take another chance because of things that happen before. This my friend is called a cycle. End the cycle!